A letter to a Younger Brother

I feel very emotional while writing this. Probably, the feelings from the bottom of our heart can be told by the emotions we go through while sharing them. I think that this is the very reason why I decided to write this letter to you. I just thought that it may be a bit too awkward to share this with you orally and hence, here I am, trying to use one of the best ways of communication. 

It just happened that I wasn't there physically with you, when you shared the news of yourself getting selected for employment. Had I been there, I would have hugged you and would have definitely shed some tears of joy. It is not that you have not achieved anything earlier. In fact, I believe your biggest achievements of life have taken place before this event. The way you've grown up from an innocent school student to a mature and more than capable Man tells the whole story. But I'm writing this letter, more for it to act as a framework for your coming life than to share my feelings.

As you step into the employed life, there are several things that need to be in place. I'm mentioning them one by one but having no particular order of preference.

First and the foremost is to still be a Student. The day we stop learning is the start of our decline. As Swami Vivekananda said, "The real life of Man consists of Knowledge". If I have to add, I would say that the duty of a human being is to gain knowledge and to put it to good use. You need to keep your mind open to new ideas, concepts and solutions. If you learn like a sincere Student ( one who enjoys the learning ), you'll improve not only yourself but your surroundings too. 

Second - To be ready for the change. Trapped are those who stay in their comfort zone. The only constant in life is Change. If you always keep your shoes ready to move to the next level, you're bound to do good. And as they say, beyond your fear is your best life. Ultimately, what's the point in living a mundane life, not changing and repeating the same things. Of course, a person as creative as you are, definitely understands it well. I would simply say that you must be flexible enough for life to give you a blow and you absorb it like water. The blow may temporarily create a splash but can't destroy water. At the same time, water can sometimes take such an Avatar that everyone is scared of even going near to it, let alone the thinking of giving a blow. 

Third - Relationships. Happiest persons are those who have good relationships. Period. It needs a good heart  and investment of good deeds driven by love for the other person to develop good relationships. Ultimately, we live life, to a great extent, just because there are our loved ones for whom we matter and whom we love. It's a good idea most of the times to share about yourself, your feelings or any dilemma that you're going through with the people who are really close to us in life. 

Fourth - Count your blessings everyday. You must always remember what all you are having. There's a thin line between being grateful and looking for something better. Both the things can be done simultaneously. You feel good that what an awesome relationship you are in with your mother but at the same time, you can still look for how to get it better. You may be working well and earning good for which you should be grateful because there are many who sleep without getting a slice of bread. At the same time, you can look for working even better to achieve mastery and earn even more to do good with that money earned.

Fifth - Money doesn't matter. What you do with it matters. Money is a means to achieve a goal. One can't feed someone who's hungry without money, whether it's about the self, one's family or any other person. We can't even think of living in modern times without money unless we're a monk. Being a philanthropist or an altruist can only be achieved by great human beings and you definitely can be one. Always remember - you have the responsibility to be Rich because until good people become rich, wicked men will keep on making more money and destroy the humanity. Power and money should be in the hands of the Good. Give money the respect and place in your life what it deserves but that's it. Our decisions in life should be primarily driven by wisdom than by money.

I don't claim that these are the only things to be followed. In fact, this letter is flexible and you can later on add your learnings from life in it. I just think that I've pointed out enough of what's needed for you to evolve from being a very good person to being a great person. I believe that you'll make the most out of your life and be happily looking for growth. You can always look up to this letter whenever in trouble for you to realise the important things. And of course, needless to say, whenever in trouble, you can always count on me.

I'm so proud of you. I love you.

Your Elder Brother.

Why and when we fail as a democracy?

India is a developing country. "Developing" itself means, these are the growing years for us. With tremendous potential to grow, we are hardly tapping into it. The reason ? It's simple. We are simply failing as a democracy. If you can't believe me, read on the following points and you certainly will :-

1. Voting a Government out or in doesn't change things :- 

In India, the way people show their anger towards the Government is mainly by voting it out. But if changing merely the ruling party could solve the problem, states like Rajasthan would be the most developed one. The bottom line is, your responsibility as a citizen simply does not end with voting. This is one of the most crucial things that is making us fail as a democracy.

2. Blind trust and some rubbish comparison :- 

There are many people who blindly trust and support only a particular party's ideology and work which is as horrible as its consequences. They will simply start explaining even for all the wrong moves by a particular party. Taking advantage of this, political parties simply ask you whether the previous Government has provided you what you needed. So basically they mean to say that it will keep on going the way it has always been. Don't ask us for more. Even the supporters start saying that the other party was not providing what you are asking. In this way, we choose to be backward because the next time, when we vote out this party, the next one will compare itself with previous one and the vicious cycle goes on.

3. We virtually join a political party :- 

The problem occurs when we feel so one with a particular political party that we start justifying each and every single move of them and start answering on their behalf. This is the blunder that we have been doing for long. Taking sides. If we start fighting with each other and start to answer rather than the Government doing it, aren't we letting them take things for granted. We must understand that we are not a member of their party and everything a party does is definitely not right. We should behave as citizens of the country who vote for them and they have an accountability towards us.

I believe if we keep the above three things in mind and stop doing things wrongly, we can literally prosper as a successful democratic country. If we simply don't, we should be ready for 2047 to come and still think, "Has it really been a 100 years since we got independent and still, such a slow growth"? Let's behave like a responsible citizen for the betterment of our country.

I don't have time...

It is the best of the times. It is the worst of the times. A time of competition, a time of technology, a time of confusion, a time for focus, a time of problems, a time of hope, a time to have faith and confidence and a time to have patience. The last one perhaps is what we lack these days. We need everything to be done quickly, to achieve success ASAP, to become our own dream-self soon. There's nothing wrong with this desire to succeed but what may be wrong with this thinking is not allowing the time to yourself in order to achieve what we want.

Arijit Singh, a name that needs no introduction was barely 18 when he failed at Fame Gurukul. However, there was another talented singer who was 15 hitherto and who went on to win that show. The name was Quazi Tauqeer. Yes, the name may sound pretty unheard of to all those who never watched this show. Why is it so? May be because even after succeeding there, he did not use his talent properly. But for now, let's focus on Arijit. How he has evolved over the last few years is just excellent. Had Arijit thought at that time that he is 3 years behind Qazi or he is not as skilled and talented, he would have never become a "Soulful Voice" to millions of Indians. It would have required extreme patience and allowing time to himself in order to overcome the areas where he lacked. As a result of his patience, and working on self-improvement, he has become one of the best singers. Hats off to you man!!!

The untold story of MS Dhoni explains beautifully the scene when the selection of Indian team was made for the 2003 World Cup and Dhoni's name was not even thinked upon. After so much amount of hard work, it would have been surely frustrating for him to not go and play for India. But what he had with himself was a bigger weapon, Patience. While players of his generation like Yuvraj and Kaif had already made their mark in Under 19 world cup and were in the Indian Team by the age of 19, he got selected for the first time in the team at 24. Had he thought that he's behind others by 4-5 years, he would not be what he is today. We love you Captain Cool!!!

Boman Irani, was 41 when he got his first Bollywood Break and was 44 when MunnaBhai M.B.B.S., his first recognizable film was released. Most would not even think of making a debut at this age but Boman had something else in his mind.
There can be countless examples of success of the people who had patience and failures of people who were in awe of their talent.

What best gift we can give ourselves in life is patience, allowing time to ourselves to evolve into the man that we want to become. Well this article reading would also have required patience for you :).
All I can say is, my Time will come, and I'm not in a hurry. ;)

THEORY and PRACTICAL

I was having a conversation with my friend a few days ago. As i'm habitual of saying something philosophical everytime, I uttered many things in front of her as well and the reply was,"tell me something practical." I had no choice left other than keeping quiet at that time because I thought  it to be the wisest thing to do. But I deeply gave a thought to her problem and then my problem and finally our problem. Let us define the twins--Theory and Practical. I called them twins because both of them go hand in hand. It is a heated debate these days that our education (especially engg. education) is mere theory and no practical knowledge. One of my friends who is persuing mechanical engg. always use to say,"yaar, we can not even do what a worker at a garage can ". "What?" I asked. "He can open up and repair a car but we cannot" he said. I knew he was wrong in his perception but I again kept quiet. My friend, if you're reading this article , I just need to say that his knowledge is limited and is only confined within that type of machines at which he works upon and constantly practise as if it is to have a perfection in something in a parrot fashion. But you? You've got your theory and you can apply it anywhere at your will. But for that, your theory portion must be strong. What if an engine of a jet plane is put up in front of him? Then I bet, he'll don't even dare touch it but you'll have the confidence that you know the theory and know the technical terms, obviously you can try and get a hand on it. You can then go and have a look for what technicalities are written on its various parts and now you know the difference. Now , you know what power you will have after having the strong theoretical knowledge.
 Another aspect about the theories that is generally said is that,"theories just don't work, practicals do." How mere foolishness such thoughts are ? When you yourself are calling it 'THEORY' , how can you expect it to work? Afterall, it is you, the doer who is supposed to work with the theory yaar. It is your responsibility to do the practical of this theory. What can books do ? They can't walk or work, they don't have any hands or legs. All they've got is the knowledge to share with you, the theories that you must absorb, believe in them and then make them practical.
 Now the final aspect of it as to be 'NOT WORKING' or in other words, 'FROM IMPRACTICALITY TO IMPRACTICABILITY'. But again what foolishness will be in that if we just try for once, twice, thrice or even five or ten times and just say that it doesn't work. Thomas Edison had to work on his theory 10000 times only after which it could become practicable because he believed in his knowledge and didn't back down.
 Again guys, this blog article is also a theory. I don't think this will work but its' readers will. You and only you have got the power to transform the potential power of words of the books into practicals and use them to your own goodwill. Books and words are nothing but the theories(the knowledge) that you (the doer) must believe in and persistently apply it and make it practicable and practical.
 Afterall, THEORY and PRACTICAL  go hand in hand!!! don't they ? :)

A ride unforgettable!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi friends, it shouldn't be much of a wonder to you I guess if I tell you that I love to write fiction. Well, for the first time today, I'm posting a part of my fiction here, just to have you a little glimpse of my fiction writing. Let me tell you one thing before you read this that this piece of fiction is really fictitious, not at all related to reality.

"Hey,it's blue...","No, pink actually..."
"It's a combination of these two..."
My thoughts were quarrelling with each other. Then I bended again towards my right to make a final decision. I had to glance as she was only half visible to me. Actually she was sitting two rows ahead of me and a boy was the barrier against her complete view to my sight as he was sitting a row ahead of me exactly between me and she. I again looked at the beautiful hair clip...'Yes, it's Pink :)'.
As the class was over, everyone rushed out, so did I. I reached her and looked at her face as if wanted to talk with eyes. She said, "NO" in a sense that meant 'Yes'. I was happy but I was even happier because of the fact that she read me.Finally she started her scooty and then I sat behind her. As I moved my feet to the footsteps, I got closer to her body, thanks to scooty makers...!!!! She started driving. It was a beautiful fragrance, made me move even closer, her hairs. Now, I moved a bit more close to her so that my body was touching hers. There was a little cute smile on her face that said,'You're crazy!!!'. I had a look at her beautiful light purple stole matched with a sky blue suit from so close. Now, I couldn't stop myself. I bended ahead from the right side so that my head was parallel to hers. Her smile getting broader. Then, from the other side, I moved my left hand over hers, the cute little softer one, started driving my palm slowely from her elbow to her fingers and finally stopped there. I was feeling awesome touching her hand that was controlling her scooty simultaneously. Now, it was my right hand's job, I moved it along her waist and curled her stomach. Now her smile was diminishing and she was getting serious...She got rid of my left hand and moved hers to my right one pulling it away slowely from her body saying,"Yaar...please don't", in a voice that made me go insane. Well, this was the most killing moment, she looked even cuter and I swear to God, I couldn't stop myself at all at that moment. I slowly moved my left hand towards her face, held her left jaw with it slightly and moved my face closer to her right cheek. With my face a few millimeters away of hers and my eyes got closed automatically and I suppose she too had her eyes closed by that time(don't know exactly , was insane[was in excited state :P]). I touched her cheek with my lips with a gentle smooch. We both were silent after that and the rest of the ride was travelled silently as well.

My mistake....????? Yuckkkkkkssssssssssss............man!!!!

For the first time, the intervals between the examination papers seemed to me as too much. And that's why I thought of start reading 'My experiments with truth', and autobiography of Gandhiji in these gaps, minorly, not to get bored and majorly to learn something. Many no. of times we all would have attempted "A great leader--Mahatma gandhi" in our English Literature question paper during our primary and middle school examinations but it is really a wonder that we don't know even a bit about him. It is not possible to understand such a personality and his learnings unless you are in senses. It really takes time and maturity and that too I came to know when I read a few starting chapters of his autobiography. However, the curiosity about him raised in my mind when I watched 'Lage raho Munnabhai' in 2007 or 08, don't remember exactly the year. 'To tell the truth' was one of his teachings that I liked most but later on found 'To accept your mistake' as the one I needed to implement the most. I wouldn't have come to know about it unless I was told by my ....... friend.

'To accept your mistake'......uuuuu......well, again I'll say, it's 'easier said than done' because it took me time to learn this and yeah maturity as well.

Firstly, let me inform my reader not to expect any amazing piece of writing in this article because as you can see, I'm writing in a slow-steady-calm pace with no thrillers and this too has a reason that it's time for being sincere. Sincerely, it's a serious problem if you're not used to accept your mistake. There are a lot of moments in your life that may let you feel tyhat how nice you've been to others and how good and sweet you're, others may say this to you as well a numerous times, but only time tell you what a mess you had been and are. There are many incidents which if I start telling will never end and around you as well there are a lot of things to teach you this like --'Jay-veeru's anger towards Thakur for not picking them the Gun and later on they came to know that he didn't have hands' in Sholay, or it may be that classic story in which --'A boy was amazed to see the outside world, and a person observing him made fun of him and later on came to know that the boy got his eyesight for the first time til his birth'. Believe me, it is like a sharp pointed pin continuously pointing at you or like ants under your skin when you come to know what a mistake(blunder for that matter) you have done and what if you never even get a chance to say sorry to such persons whom you have hurt and what is its use even if you get one because just saying sorry isn't the heal for the wound you've caused.

The only thing I think we can do in such situations is to be thankful to those lovely people who have tolerated you, have loved you even in such situations and accepted you even in your most awkward avatar, do as much as you can for them, though it does not happen overnight but remember, you can always sweep out the dust irrespective of how many times it stucks to you again and again...and you know what....If I ask the writer in me, he just says--"It takes a heart for being nice". :)
Goodbye....
Take care....
:)

Oh Yes! Do it this way......

I don't know why but my love to write for girls just never ends. And it rose even more when I read Swami Vivekananda writing inspirational things about women. He told about women's perseverance, patience, strength, softness and how important they are for the society.
So here I am once again with another article about the invincible and amazing creation of god--"WOMAN". When we see examples of Rani Laxmibai, Kalpana Chawla, Kiran Bedi, Sunita Williams, Sister Nivedita, Mother Teresa, Lata Mangeshkar, Asha Bhonsle, P.T.Usha, Kim Clijsters, Maria Sharapova, Anjum Chopra, Jhoolan Goswami......the list just never ends and all of them are just awesome. But before going so far, let's search in the house. The first and the foremost name is of our mother. Now I find myself as the worst writer of the world when it comes to writing about my mom, I'm not able to write about her as I cannot find words, what do I do??? But one thing that we all can see is that how much sacrifice they do to cope up with the needs of all the family members. "Woman has suffered for eons and that has given her infinite patience and infinite perseverance", that's what Swamiji said about women. And it is a truth with a proof!!! Not only this, while observing my mom daily, how she works, manages, manipulates different situations, I got inspired and motivated, I learn so much things about management that even so many good books cannot teach. Well, as I said I'm the worst when it comes to moms and that's why it'll be better if I move ahead now, but just one last thing that you all know to all moms and 'badi moms', hats off and I love you all....!!!!!!
Now....sisters....the best companion of a brother( might be for a sister as well) in this world I guess!!! I've only the cousin sisters and they live in different cities so I rarely get a chance to meet them. But I'm so damn crazy about them...........ok, let me tell you an incident  that happened on the day of rakshabandhan 2010.
'I was just walking down the road when I saw a girl trying to get her Hero Honda Pleasure out of her house. She wasn't being able to as the height of the road was about 5-7 inches higher than that of her house floor level. I couldn't get that earlier and I just passed by. After a few steps, I heard a voice that held my breath, "excuse me bhaiyya, if you can come up and help me out please", that girl called me. When I heard that voice, that was pretty much similar to my sister's but that wasn't all, when I looked at her face, I was stunned to see that, same face.........!!!!!!! Oh god...!!! I kept staring at her and moved very slowly without getting my eyes away from her, put her scooter out that too looking at her and in a speed as if someone remoted me to work 5 times slower than I normally do. "Thank you" with a pleasant smile was all that I heard as the culmination. After a minute, I'm proud that I showed the courage to hold my tears. I don't know what was it...May be that I was missing my sis. so much on that very day.....May be that I was watching her in every girl that day.....May be that girl was my sister(0 possibility).................Don't let me write more for the sisters as it'll just never end. Now, for the boys, another important part, their sweethearts( beloveds, babies etc. for that matter). Dekho zara, kya smile aayi hai chehre par.......oye hoye!!!! Don't be that happy, there'll be an article devoted to ony these beautiful creations but not now.
"Women will work out their destinies-much better, too, than men can ever do for them. All the mischief to women has come because men undertook to shape the destiny of women", said Swamiji. And with a few lines I would like to put a break to this article as well......
Women are so great.....
Why for them then this fate?
High high low low...
whatever you say...
they'll be as they are....
pretty damn good and accurate.

Only an International Women's day is not enough for them......let's celebrate everyday on their name, we can't even think of our existence without them......
With love............................................................

The problem that is really 'fuckin'!!!!!!!!!!!

It may be that you might find this one as the most boring blog till now because now I'm writing all about me, my experience, my fucking story and my damn fucking problem that I've started  facing now-a-days. And I'll not let you wait for it as I'm writing this article Fastly and Furiously. The problem is that 'ONLY GOOD INTENTIONS ARE NOT ENOUGH' and I've learned it from a few recent experiences. In this fucking world, you've to express, expose and advertise yourself to show that you really carry good intentions in your mind and your heart. I don't know why is it so but I can say, it is a must especially with those who are close to your mind. The thing called understanding looses its meaning here. Even your friends misjudge you at these times and you've to prove yourself and convince them and that too when you don't know how to? Now, take care of one more thing here that you do not loose your patience here as it'll be natural if you do because you're right.

I tried to give an attempt on a heavy research work in this field(jokes apart) and perhaps I am able now to interpret it upto some extent. One of the reasons I see for this is 'doubt' but it will not clear everything to you. Aukaat ke hisaab se baat karoon to 'Shaq'. Yes, when you're dubious about someone's character, your mind observes only the negative things about the person and ignores even the greatest positive things they've done and how much they like you and in some cases love you.....
To be continued........

THEY CARE FOR YOU....DON'T THINK THEY'RE INTERFERING IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE .

I think I've already concluded it by the title of this article but let us elaborate it. From a very long period of time ones and friends demanding of more freedom, more liberty and for a small period of time, me too was illusionated by this false belief of theirs. For the first time in my life, I was so damn wrong and I do not regret for it although I'm happy that I experienced the unfailing truth that our parents are just never wrong. 'Never wrong' in the sense that it is their way of showing love, yes, Care is the most innocent and it-just-comes-natural-for-whom-you-love thing for being an avatar of love. Now, I will not jump up to the rubbish topics like 'they are more conscious for the girls' or 'girls are to be taken care of more than the boys', in my opinion, these all are folklore. Its ok yaar, I know that the extreme care thing turns down all your freedom badly but just give a thought to it, what will happen when they do not care and by just a single incident, all your joys turns to sorrows? Simply, you are not that mature so that you can take care of yourself and know all your goods and bads and that's why your parents or Guardians or any person who cares for you takes the lead. Got it? Not yet? Slap!!!!!! Got it now?? Still not??? one more......Slap!!!!!!! Now think for a few minutes holding that cheek with your hand.
You are a girl, going for a morning walk, two guys comes to you saying 'Good morning', if they are your friends, its fine but if your parents don't know them, its normal for them to react fumingly....How can a stranger say any thing to their girl??? Just think more.....think of that situation when those boys are not your friends, but they are roadies came to irritate your, flirt with you.......don't let me go ahead and speak more. So, to all such 'badi mummies' whose presence is dangerous enough for such anti-social elements and they don't even dare to do so, I love you 'Badi Mummies' and Hats off!!!!!!!!

Onlinemania (facebookmania), {Facebook, twitter haaye rabba}

"You have to write the next article for my blog...."
"No, why would I? You do, I don't have time...."
"please.....yaar.......can't you do that for me...?"
after about ten minutes of my pleading, she finally agreed and believe me, I just loved that conversation very much(by the way, I love each and every single conversation with her). So here it is, the best article till now on my blog from the very loveliest friend of mine....enjoy blog writing at its best and I'm damn sure that you're gonna feel the catapult towards a different and amazing tone and style of writing instead of that boring type of mine.!!!

Imagine yourself sitting in your home wishing to talk to a person who is somewhere in a corner of the world miles away from you...The situation seemed practically impossible if we were living in early-man ages why early man let it be few hundred years ago. But today, in this age, where man calls himself as 'civilized' and 'socialized', this situation is not only possible but is as easy as bribing any government officer for getting a legal certificate for your illegal work. So let's thank the one that made this possible and revolutionized our life by creating an entirely different world i.e.,world of virtualism, "The Virtual World", the sole creator and founder of this world, "Internet". It would not be a big deal if I call Internet as God of virtual world.

Well, we all are very well aware of the contribution that Internet has made in our life. It has reduced the distance of miles to a single click of mouse. Everything you want is available on Internet, what you need to do is a single click so there is a long list of advantages and importance of Internet but today our concern is the socializing done through it.

So friends, "Welcome to the socializing in this virtual world in 2012 style". Let's take the case of a 10 year old child and ask him to name the President of our country, 8 in 10 will do it but ask him his favourite cartoon character, he will give you a long list. He would be able to enlist all the social networking sites but if asked about the fundamental rights, he may doubt. The reason is obvious i.e., increasing popularity of these social networking sites. Today even a 10 year old child will be having his account on these sites. Some of the popular social networking sites are Facebook, Twitter, Myspace, Google etc. People of all age groups from a 10 year old child to a 60 year old man are on these sites claiming to be a part of this so called virtual world and considering themselves as socially sound.

The sole intention behind the invention of these social networking sites was to act as a medium to stay in virtual touch with friends and family by "occasionally" sharing photos and news about your well being. But with time, this has taken a new dimension, the word "occasionally" has changed into "regularly" and news about well being into "copy paste monstrosity". Now-a-days, people are so used to these sites, that they even can't imagine their lives without it. Here is a technical term for such kind of people i.e.,"online maniac" and the disease with which they are suffering is "online mania".
Online culture is now so much popular that it has taken a verb form. Ask a person about his routine and 90% chance is there that his routine includes atleast one hour of "facebooking", yes facebooking, the word facebook has changed into facebooking, ask a person what he does in free time, he will answer 'facebooking'. The effect of this online mania can be realized by this. People don't find time to pursue their hobbies and when asked , here comes the prompt reply"where is the time?" They are so damn busy with their work that they can't give atleast 5 minutes to their hobby but somehow manages to spare an hour from their busy schedule for facebooking and tweeting--strange but true!!!!!

People are spending hours and hours on these social networking sites doing nothing. It is like a competition that a person having more number of friends on facebook is socially more sound or more popular i.e., it has turned into a status symbol. Here I wanna share a joke which is best suited in this situation.
A teacher asked a 5th standard studying student that what does the green dot on Parle-G Biscuits' packet signify? The student answered that it signifies that Parle-G is online.

People are now so much obsessed with these sites that they are spending thousands of money to get the photo clicked for the profile or dp. They are going to professional photographers and don't mind to spend half a lakh just for the profile pic, then they upload it and check in every 5 minutes that how many likes and comments they got. The popularity is directly proportional to the number of comments or likes, more number of comments means assurance that you are most looked personality on facebook, which in turn means another 50 thousand rupees for the next photo-shoot. :P

Height of status update is that people post status @five per minute forcing others to like or comment on their updates and if that person don't like or comment on his status, then here comes the tit-for-tat , 'If you don't comment on my status, why should I?' Sharing and uploading photos trend  has become so popular that people now upload photos of anything or everything without considering the security factor in mind. What they want is just fame in this virtual world. Imagine a real life situation if facebook has no existence, then people will roam around with their pics requesting everyone,"hey please like my picture".

Now about friends' list, it follows a scientific law, "Rate of your popularity is directly proportional to the number of friends you have in your list keeping other parameters constant". Some people add as many friends as they can whether they know them or not, doesn't matter! What matters is the number. They send request to strangers and if they don't accept it, then they send incrudelity message saying why don't they accept friend request . When asked about number of friends, they proudly say,"I have 700 friends", "I have 1000 friends" and if a person doesn't have long list of friends, then he is considered socially backward. But dude, what's the point in keeping so many friends if you don't know them, why to waste time in reading copy paste status updates of those persons whom you don't know. Ok, you have thousand friends but how many of them will actually be there when you need some help or you are in trouble? The answer is no one. The only one who's gonna help you is your family and your small set of crazy friends or to be more precise, your buddies. It is how strange that you can name the person who is miles away from you and can give his details but can't name your neighbour and what he does. But in reality, only your neighbour will help you if there is some emergency, not a person sitting miles away from you. Its good to be socialized and to know different people form different corners of the world but then to be connected with them only ignoring your near ones seriously can lead you into trouble. I wonder if someday a stranger knocks the door of my home and say, "we have 10 mutual friends on facebook, can I come in...?"

Now about status update. Some people keep changing their status update in every five minutes, status goes like this,"Going for a vacation next week for one month". By writing this as your status , you are doing nothing but just giving open invitation to the thieves that our home is free for 1 month, you are cordially invited and take whatever you want. Some status updates which I found personally very stupid are senti songs or heartbroken songs and even more stupid is the hundreds of comments that follows it. If you have a problem in your love life, then face them or better talk to that person....why facebook them? By doing this nonsense, are you getting something positive? Here comes another type of status update, "Hey its raining", "Awesome mausam". Dude, if its raining, and you love it, then go and enjoy the rains, why post it as a status. Everyone knows that its raining and the rain wouldn't stop if you don't post it as your status. Seriously, don't be a weather forecaster by posting such kind of things. Another kind of status updates is the motivational speech which is just a copy paste, if you are so much inspired by that, then implement it in your life, not in your profile and some people even post the problems which they are going through(emotional). But dude, just tell me, are you gonna find any solution by facebooking it? It would be better if you try to solve them by talking with that person and I want to say something to those people,"Be selective with persons whom you share your problems, because few cares, others are just curious" so never advertise your emotions. There is a saying that "Neki kar, dariya me daal", now it goes like this,"Kuch bhi kar, facebook par dall". Here I have just one word to say that don't be a facebook status criminal by posting such kinds of status.

At last, I just wanna say that its good to be socialized, use these sites but don't get addicted to them as it is always said, "excess of anything is harmful". Find time for your near and dear ones, go out with them, spend some quality time with them, don't confine your romance within that stupid laptop doing online dating, go out explore something new, spend a day without laptop, mobile and trust me, you will find real peace of mind because you can become the king of virtual world but at the end, you have to live in this real world with real people because whenever you will be in some mental trauma or some serious problem, then comments and likes won't make you feel good but what you will need at that time is the hug, love and support of your dear ones. Here, I'm not criticizing these sites, remeber, If someone write abusive words in a notebook or a paper, then the fault is not of the paper or notebook, the fault is of the person who had written that. So, don't blame these sites instead have a self control and use these sites only for the purpose for which they are created.

Oh "this problematic thing" my god!!!!

I am not writing this blog as a master infact I am writing this one as a weak student and that is what I am in this topic. I have become confident of giving it an attempt as the result of my loveliest friend's support. She told me how to understand someone's problems. Well, I've learnt so many lessons from her that I have to write a whole thick book of these lessons and title it,'Universal Philosophy revisited for dummies and dummy geniuses'. Uuuuuuuuuu.......I will do that in the near future but for now I will just say--'I just love her for this reason, she is awesome!!!!!'. And till now you would be fuming like,'Why don't this idiot just replace the title of this blog with "My Loveliest Friend"?Is he here just to appreciate her or will he talk some business now?.' Let me tell you, you are absolutely right, my reader, I was thinking of doing that but I'm not able to describe her completely.

Ok, leave it..otherwise this post will just never end. Let's talk some business now...

When I was 16, at that time I just used to sit behind and my Papa used to drive the bike. Whenever he was slow, I shouted innocently and unknowingly for that matter,"Drive it fast papa...come on...What are you afraid of so much..???". He always stayed cool with a decent reply, "No beta....safety comes first." Anger was (and I think it still is) my friend in such incidents. An year later I learnt how to ride a bike, it was so easy for me. But a time came when I had to drop my little brother to school  as his bicycle was not ergonomically well. I never felt so much nervousness riding a bike ever and at that time I came to know for whose safety papa was worried of...I love you papa...!!!

Such incidents were and are the part of my life and I think yours too. But the thing is we just need to put ourselves in one's situation before blaming one. I remember how many times I used to shout over my friends during the countless cricket matches we played,"Abe terese ek chakka nahin lag raha, ****** ke!" And I remember when I came to bat, I found it as hard as hell to hit a six.

There are a few more pretty recent incidents that I wanted to share but it will be too specific  to do so I thought. So, I will just keep the rest of the post in your mind..just give a thought to it..just think about all such events in your life and see how many times you were simply stupendously and idiotically wrong by not putting yourself in one's situation and I'm sure you too might come out with a lot of content that is even more than enough for a Santa Clause giftbag.

At last...one more promise to my special friend(oh well...loveliest friend for that matter) that I will always implement this lesson from now on taught by you so flawlessly and amazingly genuinly well ;).

I, Me and Myself

Nope!!! I ain't copying it form the Salman's movie, the title, but this is what I was told that I follow. My loveliest friend keeps telling me that my attitude shows 'I, me and myself' factor and I love her more for that she continously keeps telling this to me and I continually tell her that I don't have any such intention but here comes the reply,"You do carry, but the thing is that you don't come to know about this, the thing called arrogance". Even, the most intelligent part of me can not dare to argue with her much or refuse her suggestion to improve this soft skill. Well, I'm working on it but have not succeeded that much as you can see I'm writing about myself from the very starting of this post and it's been a several lines though, so I think I should better switch on to a second or third person.

The most obvious abstract noun that comes in our mind hearing this is 'Selfishness'. But I will say, use this 'I, me and myself' thing wisely and it'll help you extremely in your life. It'll help you being happy and being a good promising person in most of the relations. Let's see how.....

One is the time when you are dejected, when you expected a lot of love from your loved ones or even friends and you are not getting it, then , it is the best thing to follow this and improve your nature from being possessive to not so at all. It's an awkward situation, I know it very well and afterall who do not expect love from his/her loved ones? But I will say that it may be a misunderstanding thing or you are fortunate that you are secured of that emotional parasite. I'm apologetic to you as I'm not explaining this 'emotional parasite' thing to you this time but may be in some upcoming posts. At this time, I'll just say, "It happens that Shit happens!".So, when you've learnt to live on your own, you're not at all scared of 'if-i-don't-get-a-response' thing. You may utter the words in your mind like,"I am the King of the world" as SRK did in DON or if you're an spiritual personality, then you're simply happy with your God, you do not need anyone else. You can also use this when you're facing a lot of criticism. well, it's quite normal, and my another friend told me that there is a lot of damn gossipping happening about her everywhere so I just suggested her this way. The best way is ignorance for any such criticism.
But remember, this should only be done when you're not getting that response. If you are adapting it as a habit, believe me, you're in danger of losing hold of your relationships.

Second is when you want to do something that is hard, tough or requires a lot of effort. At this time, a completely non-egoistic person will quickly demand for help and that will surely make him weaker for that day when there will be no one to help him. But when ego comes into act, you'll simply say,"I don't need anyone, I can do it by myself!". Now, this is the time where your improvement and capacity as well as skills boost up. You're far more self-dependent now and will continue improving whenever you do this. But again, the same caution, don't adapt it too as a habit because you simply know the consequences when you don't know anything at all about something and you're going to attempt it.

One of my favourite songs I hummmmm.... when I need self-motivation and you may do the same too if you like and that song is....
    mera apna falak hai....mere apne sitaare hain....
    mere apne toofaan hain....mere apne kinaare hain...
    main apne rab ka banda hoon................
    main apne rab ka banda hoon................

At last, one more line for me....I promise you my lovely friend, I'll soon improve this nature of mine.

The simplest and the toughest thing to understand--"LOVE"

First of all, lots of lots of love and kisses to my lovely readers for whom I love to write. Well, it is the longest waited blogpost and there may be many reasons in your mind. Most probably, you would be thinking, it was because of the exams and all that or the lack of the content. Well, well, well.....let me say, it will not be an exaggeration if I alugh till my stomach pains on the above reasons....hahaha!!!! I would laugh because of the fact that the above reasons are simply nonsense. I didn't post any blog during this time because I thought most of the previous blogposts are very critical and important to implement. It was just the matter of time that how many of you did implement any of them? Remember the "attitude.." one........or the "Go Girls!!!", huh? ok, I hope, you'll again start working towards them. Well, another reason that 'lack of the content' one is even more rubbish. I never lack content and can write a new blog everyday. But it's okay yaar, this blog is not about any implementation thing, it's all about feelings, emotions and the best thing called LOVE.


Now, instead of going for the meaning, looking at you, my lovely young reader, I will directly jump to the relationships for which we have to deal everyday with and there is only pumping and impulsive force for them called LOVE. If I have to define love, I will just say as Michael Jackson did in his book 'Dancing-The Dream' that--"Love is like a wet soap-bar, you must know how to handle it gently, if you hold it tight or very loose,  in both the cases, you will fail maintaining it". Well, love also has three types and I apologise if reading the previous few words you thought-"yaar, yeh phir se shuru ho gaya". Yup, I did!!! First one is possessive love in which only the demand of love is there, love is expected more and more and more but this type of love is very painful and brings dullness and dejected feeling to your life. You will never be happy if you expect more in return. The second type is the one in which love is demanded in return for love. Well, it happens most of the times in modern relationships, mainly the girlfriend-boyfriend type. The third type of love completely lacks possessiveness and is highly spiritual and it says, "Just love and expect nothing in return." It may not be possible to love a human like this but it is possible to love God in the same way.


Most of the youngsters now-a-days are having quick break-ups after starting of their love life or many marriages are breaking soon. But afterall, why??? why, why, why? Oh! it's damn simple to answer this question. Most of us have heard the statement uttering out of a lover's mouth--"You're a very interesting person." This term spits out when they keep discovering new things about each other, when they're still discovering innovative things about each other, they are happy and till that time, they find each other interesting and confuses this feeling with LOVE. But, the day they are bored with each other, comes across the fact that now (s)he has no new qualities, the relationship ends. When the attraction of face fades, when the romance of flesh diminishes, when they're done with sex, when they can't bear to watch the same face everyday anymore, the relationship is no more. This is not love, this is just a temporary attraction but love is purely spiritual. When you love, it means your soul is interconnected with other's. The love is something that never lets your interest down in other person. It does not tell you to be attracted to some qualities of the person, it tells you to be attached to that person.

But sometimes, infact many times, a situation comes when you would wonder, "Why that person can't love me?" I will say 'love yourself' first. If you don't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you? If you say you're not good looking, how can you expect anybody else to say that you do look good? This face and this body will be yours till the very end either you love it or not, so why not love it? And now I feel that the line of a very famous song, "main to khud se pyaar jataaun" seems far more sophisticated and really true to me. So, with the only message I wanna leave to you is --"Just love, love others and love yourself. It is an awesome feeling to fall in love(with yourself)."

What is real help???

Help!!!!!!hmmm......... what is it? Let me tell you an anecdote to clarify it with lots of elaboration contained in it.
Once there was a professor in a medical college who wanted to teach his students a little philosophy. Therefore he decided to invite all of the students in a hall.He told them-"Now i will teach you how a caterpillar turns into a butterfly."He told the students that in the next couple of hours, the butterfly would struggle to come out of the cocoon. But no one should help the butterfly. Then he left.
The students were waiting and it happened. The butterfly struggled to get out of the cocoon, and one of the students took pity on it and decided to help the butterfly out of the cocoon against the advice of his teacher. He broke the cocoon to help the butterfly so it didn't have to struggle anymore. But shortly afterwards the butterfly died.When the teacher returned, he was told what happened. He explained to this student that by helping the butterfly, he had actually killed it because it is a law of nature that the
struggle to come out of the cocoon actually helps develop and strengthen its wings. The boy had deprived the butterfly of its struggle and the butterfly died.
So the boy was thinking that he's helping that insect and unknowingly he was letting him in a deep deep trouble and that eventually resulted in a blunder that costed its life.Therefore, it is one of the most essential parts of our life to understand what real help is? If you start helping each and everyone immediately , it'll not help at all, infact it will result in their underpreparation for one of the toughest times in their life where they will need to stand and face problems with enthusiasm and strength.Let's take a few daily life examples--What is the best thing to do when you're having a seat in a bus and a few ladies are standing? Well seriously I can't answer it precisely but there are definitely two views. The first one that it'll be a real shame if a youngster is sitting and a female had to stand. Well, the second thing is if we give them seat each and every single time, what about those times when they're on a long journey during a period of festivals so that they have to travel all the way standing.Therefore, it is necessary to let people be a little bit more self-dependent so that instead of looking for help anytime they are in a problem, they try to solve it manually and that too culminates to success.
Now this one the last example yaar, and here each and every single thing will be crystal clear to you. As most of us did prepare for IIT-JEE and the best and foremost instruction with topmost preference in each book was not to look at the solution unless you've tried it for several times and are exhausted in it.Why did they keep instructing that? Because if we will not solve the problem by ourselves, then everytime a problem comes to us, we'll look for the solution immediately or say we'll have no idea of how to proceed now because we'll be out of tricks as we didn't improve our mind in that particular direction.
This time I will not conclude  and for the first time I'm inviting comments as a conclusion from each and every reader. Hope this time, it lets you come to a life changing decision in your life or say other people's lives!!!!!!!

GO GIRLS, RULE THE WORLD!!!!!!

I watched Chak De India for the 17th time yesterday and again got inpiration with the same intensity as it was when I watched it for the first time.I really liked the way Shah Rukh created the team, taught them how to play for the country and lo and behold, took them to world cup victory.I liked these things very much. But there is a difference between like and love and what I loved in that movie was the incident when all the Chak De girls were at a restaurant , a few guys were irritating them and then the inception of building a team appeared super-clear. All the girls beats them so hard that they will never ever think about doing it again. Now, a few questions that are necessarily going to Google your mind are-How dare the guys irritate the girls? The answer is pretty simple and that is the guys think that the girls are weak, they'll just tolerate whatever the guys will do. The boys think that they have the right to stare at any girl, tease them, irritate them, flirt with them and do whatever they want to. Ok, boys ke baare me to kar li baatein, yeh to haraami hain but I would like to ask the girls, How stupid you are? If you allow them to do these things, why would they waste the opportunity?

And now starts your list of excuses and the first and the topmost is definitely going to be about practicality in that particular incident. Let me tell you, it is purely practical, the thing is that you lack confidence. The thing is you have developed the habit of feeling protected just in  the company of your brothers or father. All in all, you are again depending and depending specially on the men. It's ok, being dependent on your brother or father is good. But what will you do when they are not with you? I will say just one thing, you girls have go the power that no boy in the world possess. But be mentally strong, by strong, I mean so strong that you never loose hope even if the conditions are going to be worst. From the very next time, whenever men irritate you, "milkar itna maaro haraamzadon ko ki zindagi bhar yaad rakhein aur doosre bhi dekhkar darein." I would like to give you a few advices:-
First- I would request the girls to be united. If you will not be united, it will be a lot easier for them to irritate you.
Second-and the most important advice-Learn martial arts or any type of fighting act that'll help you in self defence. It's not a joke, it's extremely important.

Keep those two advices in your mind, but first develop a conviction in your mind that you will definitely win. Believe, believe and believe yourself. I hope you would have understood very well whatever I said but again you will hesitate in implementing it. Let me give you one more advice for it, just discuss with other girls about it. Build your own team and be the strongest gang. Oops!!! one  more problem? what about the hesitation you possess about asking it to your parents, that martial arts thing? WEll, think about the irritation and you'll just catapult yourself to talk about it. I would like to say one more thing, this blog may surely develop a sense of negative feelings for boys but I will say that I hate the statement-" All men are dogs". Screw you!!! how dare you say that? You are abusing your own father and brother? Not all are like that girls, you just have to understand who are good and who are not.
Now when I'm believing you, why can't you do it to yourself?
I hope this blog was enough for you to ejaculate the Adrenaline Rush. And I hope, one day will come when 10 boys are beating your brother and you come and save him. Just Go Girls--Rule the world!!!

ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING

Bangggg!!!!!! Here comes the most expected blogpost from my side. First of all, i know most of the people are intelligent now-a-days and that's why they may know whatever i'm trying to tell here but inspite of all that, i would like to request my lovely readers not to read this one, just absorb it. Don't gulp it down, keep chewing it, and please, this time, don't judge it, just learn learn and learn. Here, I'm introducing a few anecdotes from a great great book named "YOU CAN WIN" from "SHIV KHERA". And believe me guys and off course the gals, that this is one of the best piece of non-fiction ever which is a complete handbook or should i say the workbook or simply i should say that i can't find words for this book, Just go today and rush your copy, it'll change your life.
ok, lots of talks about the book, now the title. Why did I give that title? Just because it is a fact, a fact that will never change and one more thing here I wanna clarify is that most of the people confuses ATTITUDE with EGO and they know by themselves who are they? Just read it and then you'll come to know, actually what ATTITUDE is.


There was a man who made a living selling balloons at a fair. He had all colors of balloons, including red, yellow, blue, and green. Whenever business was slow, he would release a helium-filled balloon into the air and when the children saw it go up, they all wanted to buy one. They would come up to him, buy a balloon, and his sales would go up again. He continued this process all day. One day, he felt someone tugging at his jacket. He turned around and saw a little boy who asked, "If you release a black balloon, would that also fly?" Moved by the boy's concern, the man replied with empathy, "Son, it is not the color of the balloon, it is what is inside that makes it go up." The same thing applies to our lives. It is what is inside that counts. The thing inside of us that makes us go up is our attitude.

But for having a positive attitude in your life, you'll simply have to be a good person. Someone once approached Blaise Pascal, the famous French philosopher and said, "If I had your brains, I would be a better person." Pascal replied, "Be a better person and you will have my brains." And that truly tells us a lot. I think you might have got the correct definition of ATTITUDE now. Now one more example will finally clear to you the real meaning of positive attitude.
There was a giant who was bullying and harassing the children in the village. One day, a 17-year-old shepherd boy came to visit his brothers and asked, "Why don't you stand up and fight the giant?" The brothers were
terrified and they replied, "Don't you see he is too big to hit?" But David said, "No, he is not too big to hit, he is too big to miss."

In this blog, I talked about what is ATTITUDE? In the next one, I'll talk about steps towards building a positive attitude but first of all, please give a thought to it, think about it and take care of the precaution again, Never confuse "ATTITUDE WITH EGO".

Even Harvard B-School won't teach that

It's a great opportunity for all of the aspiring entrepreneurs and managers to learn a lot from Anna's anshan.The way he and his team has worked and clicked the right link at the right time, that is really amazing. The whole strategy with key planning and the choice of right person for the right thing is really the main subject of concern. I think each and every company in the world would like to have such an understanding and wise strategic environment at their workplace. Let's have a closer look at the lessons we learn from this anshan or should I say the lessons that are expected to learn atleast from the wanna be MBAs or even young corporates.



#LEADERSHIP:-- To be a good leader, you must understand your colleagues as well as juniors very well and this is not at all an easy task. To understand and use their skills at the right place and right time is itself a great skill.Why go anywhere else when we have an example of the Superstar. Nope, not Rajnikant, the biggest ever superstar is Anna and I bet, you will even not dare to opine differently. So he just had the work of taking a few persons with him who can do the job and will not at all leave him struggling in the path? No, the main test was yet to come, how to resolve all these things? How can the public be united? How can a conviction be developed? These points were greatly worked upon by the Genius mind and really it wasn't at all possible without the correct thinking and planning for a long time.So one of the most important factors that matters is Leadership Skills should be great.

Now inspite of defining it in points, let me give you an example that will consist the whole situation.

#DEPARTMENT DIVISION AND CO-OPERATION WITH GREAT ERGONOMICS:--
Let's have a look at the main members of the public ombudsman committee and their job:

KIRAN BEDI:-- As she is a former IPS officer, it was natural for her to configure each and every possible move of police upto any level. She knew when and what would be the reaction of the police to which incident and knew how to talk to them? And how to keep control over any such situation that may cause violence related troubles. Therefore, her job was to manipulate the police talks as well as law related works as she is an expert in law field too and we all saw that in "aap ki kachehri".


SHANTI BHUSHAN AND PRASHANT BHUSHAN:-- Shanti Bhushan, former Supreme court Judge deserves to be the trump ace for any law related works and he did a good homework at what should be the whole structure like? Where to include what in the ombudsman? What problems are the system struggling this time with? What problems may occur when this bill goes to Lok Sabha? What type of conversation should be done with the Government that involves law related problems? These all questions were perfectly worked upon by him.
And his son, Prashant Bhushan as well was one of the best personalities for advisory in both, conversational as well as law related areas. He really proved to be very useful through his perfect advices at different instances.

ARVIND KEJRIWAL:-- The Ramen Magsaysay award winner is one of the best speakers in the country this time. The obvious thing was that his department should be conversation related. He handled both, talking to public as well as the press release and talking to government officials. He very well kept the public informed of what the Government is doing and where are we heading our next step to? He gave all the answers of journalists with smartness and ease. He also talked to Government officials and made stretch their flexibility so that the level upto ombudsman must be achieved.


So, the talents of today and the Entrepreneurs of tomorrow, Let's put our learnings from the above example in points and in theory language now:--

#Leadership skills
#Choice of right person at right time for right job
#Co-operation and Ergonomics
#Good homework with broad approach and long term thinking
#Being ready for the every possible next incident.



I will not say that the above points are enough for and Entrepreneur to take care of. I'll neither say that they are not enough, I'll just say that they are must...

Think about them guys!!!!!!

Gandhi is the Greatest, Anna is the Latest !!!

A revolution like this was never seen before by our 3G. In fact, the 3G is participating in it with full enthusiasm. It finally 

proves one thing, that they need a good leader to carry them on and utilise their talent. I don't know whether this revolution

will bring corruption to an extermination but what's the best thing about it is that the whole country whether it is a Hindu,

Muslim, Sikh, Christian , each and everybody is on the road.  

But this unity must carry on and that's the most important thing regarding the emerging of the new era for India. 

What Anna has done is just Incredible and it was not at all easy to develop a feeling of conviction among the people

to fight with so much strength and the adrenaline rush is there for them to move ahead. 

However, talking about the public ombudsman bill , it has a certain cautions to be take care of--

First of all the supremacy of the parliement should not be lost. The investigation and transparency things are okay

but still the supremacy must be maintained. 

Second thing is that instead of going deeper towards the root, the ombudsman seems to be looking for the leaves.

This will not help at all and I think the intelligent minds like Kiran Bedi, Arvind Kejriwal and Prashant Bhushan would

have planned for this too. 

Third and the most important question is again who will take care of the watchman-" What if the members in the 

Ombudsman are corrupted?" 

Whatever be the case and whatever be the consequences, one thing is definite that things will change from now on.

Anna is the new superstar of the Millenium. When he rocks, no one comes in the way and that's why there is something

really cool in saying - "Gandhi is the Greatest, Anna is the Latest"

Freedom=Responsibility

Most of you would have heard the punch line of a very famous sports company i.e; "enjoy responsibly". Now, before going deeper into the meanings, let's first talk about what FREEDOM is all about? or say what it means? and what is its actual meaning?
If I ask you what FREEDOM means to you, mostly the answers I am likely to get will be-(i) It is to be free in every way from the tiniest bit to the biggest dreams, (ii) It means my right to vote, my right to education, my right to express and my right to do anything I want, (iii) Freedom is to be free like a bird, do whatever you want to, go wherever you like to etc.etc.. Now why don't you guys think about the responsibilities that come with it?

Ok, just a minute! Let me first apologize for blaming you. I'm also responsible for that so let me introduce three new words, "we, us and our". So now, let's learn and understand the real meaning of INDEPENDENCE. We must not look at it asa not to be dependent upon anybody, instead we must understand it as " Being Self-Dependent". And let's elaborate it now.
Hmm..... "Being Self-Dependent"means that we are responsible citizens now, we have to burden all the problems of our nation on our shoulders. It is not like we put up all through our votes to the politicians and let them control "us" then or should I say the "Mother India". A thing to be happy about is that we are no more innocent and unknowledgeable people, we know very well what politicians do and what is their target, but why do we fail in preventing our nation from corruption? The problem is that we are not using our FREEDOM or say the INDEPENDENCE well.
Let us understand it with an example--

If there are a lot of crimes and stealing going on through our society, will we ever reach the thief if the watchman cheats to us? The point is who will look after the watchman now. No, actually the point is who will take the responsibility to not let the watchman handle each and everything. And the answer is the simplest one- we all have to , afterall it is our society. The same thing Mr.Anna Hazaare is trying to tell us. And the way youngsters are supporting him, the future seems to be very bright. India will be an Independent Nation only when he will be no more dependent upon the corrupt politicians to manipulate him. Our 'MOTHER INDIA' will surely be the one someday and that someday is very near, we just need to implement whatever we say and understand. So let's stop blaming the politicians and leaders and start doing this by ourselves. I think, you would be able to configure the meaning of the tag line I introduced at the starting.

At last, I just wanna say something to our respected, honest and genius Prime Minister Dr.ManMohan Singh-" Sir, If you think your cabinet is 'nalayak' or the Members of Parliement are 'nalayak', think again, we, the people of India are your cabinet now, we are with you and will support you in any way to let India be an actual Independent Nation. And sir, we are expecting a lot to hear from you on the Independence Day Speech, let's stop talking and start doing".

JAI HIND!!!