Friday 9 September 2011

GO GIRLS, RULE THE WORLD!!!!!!


I watched Chak De India for the 17th time yesterday and again got inpiration with the same intensity as it was when I watched it for the first time.I really liked the way Shah Rukh created the team, taught them how to play for the country and lo and behold, took them to world cup victory.I liked these things very much. But there is a difference between like and love and what I loved in that movie was the incident when all the Chak De girls were at a restaurant , a few guys were irritating them and then the inception of building a team appeared super-clear. All the girls beats them so hard that they will never ever think about doing it again. Now, a few questions that are necessarily going to Google your mind are-How dare the guys irritate the girls? The answer is pretty simple and that is the guys think that the girls are weak, they'll just tolerate whatever the guys will do. The boys think that they have the right to stare at any girl, tease them, irritate them, flirt with them and do whatever they want to. Ok, boys ke baare me to kar li baatein, yeh to haraami hain but I would like to ask the girls, How stupid you are? If you allow them to do these things, why would they waste the opportunity?

And now starts your list of excuses and the first and the topmost is definitely going to be about practicality in that particular incident. Let me tell you, it is purely practical, the thing is that you lack confidence. The thing is you have developed the habit of feeling protected just in  the company of your brothers or father. All in all, you are again depending and depending specially on the men. It's ok, being dependent on your brother or father is good. But what will you do when they are not with you? I will say just one thing, you girls have go the power that no boy in the world possess. But be mentally strong, by strong, I mean so strong that you never loose hope even if the conditions are going to be worst. From the very next time, whenever men irritate you, "milkar itna maaro haraamzadon ko ki zindagi bhar yaad rakhein aur doosre bhi dekhkar darein." I would like to give you a few advices:-
First- I would request the girls to be united. If you will not be united, it will be a lot easier for them to irritate you.
Second-and the most important advice-Learn martial arts or any type of fighting act that'll help you in self defence. It's not a joke, it's extremely important.

Keep those two advices in your mind, but first develop a conviction in your mind that you will definitely win. Believe, believe and believe yourself. I hope you would have understood very well whatever I said but again you will hesitate in implementing it. Let me give you one more advice for it, just discuss with other girls about it. Build your own team and be the strongest gang. Oops!!! one  more problem? what about the hesitation you possess about asking it to your parents, that martial arts thing? WEll, think about the irritation and you'll just catapult yourself to talk about it. I would like to say one more thing, this blog may surely develop a sense of negative feelings for boys but I will say that I hate the statement-" All men are dogs". Screw you!!! how dare you say that? You are abusing your own father and brother? Not all are like that girls, you just have to understand who are good and who are not.
Now when I'm believing you, why can't you do it to yourself?
I hope this blog was enough for you to ejaculate the Adrenaline Rush. And I hope, one day will come when 10 boys are beating your brother and you come and save him. Just Go Girls--Rule the world!!!

Thursday 1 September 2011

ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING


Bangggg!!!!!! Here comes the most expected blogpost from my side. First of all, i know most of the people are intelligent now-a-days and that's why they may know whatever i'm trying to tell here but inspite of all that, i would like to request my lovely readers not to read this one, just absorb it. Don't gulp it down, keep chewing it, and please, this time, don't judge it, just learn learn and learn. Here, I'm introducing a few anecdotes from a great great book named "YOU CAN WIN" from "SHIV KHERA". And believe me guys and off course the gals, that this is one of the best piece of non-fiction ever which is a complete handbook or should i say the workbook or simply i should say that i can't find words for this book, Just go today and rush your copy, it'll change your life.
ok, lots of talks about the book, now the title. Why did I give that title? Just because it is a fact, a fact that will never change and one more thing here I wanna clarify is that most of the people confuses ATTITUDE with EGO and they know by themselves who are they? Just read it and then you'll come to know, actually what ATTITUDE is.


There was a man who made a living selling balloons at a fair. He had all colors of balloons, including red, yellow, blue, and green. Whenever business was slow, he would release a helium-filled balloon into the air and when the children saw it go up, they all wanted to buy one. They would come up to him, buy a balloon, and his sales would go up again. He continued this process all day. One day, he felt someone tugging at his jacket. He turned around and saw a little boy who asked, "If you release a black balloon, would that also fly?" Moved by the boy's concern, the man replied with empathy, "Son, it is not the color of the balloon, it is what is inside that makes it go up." The same thing applies to our lives. It is what is inside that counts. The thing inside of us that makes us go up is our attitude.

But for having a positive attitude in your life, you'll simply have to be a good person. Someone once approached Blaise Pascal, the famous French philosopher and said, "If I had your brains, I would be a better person." Pascal replied, "Be a better person and you will have my brains." And that truly tells us a lot. I think you might have got the correct definition of ATTITUDE now. Now one more example will finally clear to you the real meaning of positive attitude.
There was a giant who was bullying and harassing the children in the village. One day, a 17-year-old shepherd boy came to visit his brothers and asked, "Why don't you stand up and fight the giant?" The brothers were
terrified and they replied, "Don't you see he is too big to hit?" But David said, "No, he is not too big to hit, he is too big to miss."

In this blog, I talked about what is ATTITUDE? In the next one, I'll talk about steps towards building a positive attitude but first of all, please give a thought to it, think about it and take care of the precaution again, Never confuse "ATTITUDE WITH EGO".